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I learned this firsthand with this girl that I met.  Her name was Sarah.  She’s a teacher.  And you can tell from looking at her picture that she’s a freak.  By freak, I’m talking about freak in a good way.  I’m talking about a person with no inhibitions.  We met up and she didn’t even ask me to take her to a restaurant or watch a movie.  I was pretty happy to kiss all that bullshit goodbye because that’s your typical date itinerary.  She said she just wanted to go straight to a motel.

So, we did the deed and besides her giving it all she’s got and truly pleasing me, I really bonded with her.  There’s a whole level of honesty when you’re with somebody who is there just for physical reasons.  I’m not saying that there’s no possibility that we could be lovers, but the fact that we were there, we knew what we wanted and we took care of business, really opened my mind to a whole other level of adult honesty and intimacy.  There was no need to beat around the bush.  There was no need to put on a show.

It was a very liberating experience and I managed to hook up with her a few times more after that.  I definitely see a great future for me, thanks to online adult anonymous sex sites.